Who Really Am

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em>i look tough on the outside, but soft on the inside though am oversensitive sometimes..my friends love my caring, thoughtful, and funny nature. am so blessed and simple as a person, i learned a lot from my past, , a humble and shows compassion for people, sensible and values my friends, i listen to you and always willing to help you out………as long as i can!!! i choosing my friends carefully but that becoz i want to please people as much as my values and principles will allow..as an achiever i’d never insecure coz i knew my strength and weaknesess..

JACEYRHAE

jaceyrhae said...
Ever since I ask for no other than a younger sister
Someone to laugh and share my dreams with
With you my world is complete
My dreams and prayer come true?


You know when the day I met you
I will never find anybody I’m so comfortable with
A trustworthy and understanding friend is all I need
But I was grow I begin to understand


It is impossible as a genie in the lamp
So I pray to God instead
To see a younger sister in a form of a friend
Thank you friend you’ve been a sister to me


Now I know the plan of God that you made me see
He never gave me a younger sister but a have u instead
You’re my protector my sister
Not to mention my Best Friend

grace

jaceyrhae said


Ever since I ask for no other than a younger sister
Someone to laugh and share my dreams with
With you my world is complete
My dreams and prayer come true?


You know when the day I met you
I will never find anybody I’m so comfortable with
A trustworthy and understanding friend is all I need
But I was grow I begin to understand


It is impossible as a genie in the lamp
So I pray to God instead
To see a younger sister in a form of a friend
Thank you friend you’ve been a sister to me


Now I know the plan of God that you made me see
He never gave me a younger sister but a have u instead
You’re my protector my sister
Not to mention my Best Friend

grace

mitzch smith

I type my poem for you on the computer screen
never will you truly know
Just how much you mean
Some may say it's crazy

But I don't really care
They could never understand all that we have shared
Tne night you've spent with me
Felt like you were here

Always with an open heart
And an open ear I never had to wonder
If you truly care
Because when I turn on my computer your words are always there .

How to get past the hurt?

Dealing with rejection is something we've all had to face in our lifetimes, but there is probably no rejection that hurts worse than that of the opposite sex. I think some of the worst words in the English language are, "you're not my type" or " I don't like you like that." I have faced rejection a couple of times so I speak from experience when I say rejection can leave you feeling devastated.

I remember when I was in high school and I really liked this boy that lived across the street from me. In many ways, I look at his as my first love. I spent a lot of time hanging out with this boy, trying to get him to like me. I thought deep in my heart that the feelings I had for him were mutual. After all, he semed to care for me as much as I did for him, but as I would later find out, the relationship was very one sided.

No matter the type of rejection you are suffering, be it personal from other sources, such as the rejection of a manuscript from a publisher, there are simple steps you can take in dealing with rejection and getting past the hurt.

There is an end to the pain. The problem with rejection is that it hurts and depending on the circumstances, it may take a while to get over. What you tell yourself is what you will believe, so tell yourself that no matter what, you are going to get through this and move on. It is always helpful to focus on the end of the hurt and pain rather than focusing on the pain itself. There is some truth to the old adage of dusting yourself off and getting back on the horse that threw you. Focusing on the rejection and the hurt only strengthens the pain.

Don't take it personally. This is probably the hardest thing to do because, of course, most people take rejection personally. I know when my first love rejected me, I spent a long time trying to figure out what was wrong with me. Then I realized maybe it was not me that was at the center of the rejection! Perhaps I was not the type person he felt himself led to be with in a relationship other than friendship. So try not to take it personally when you're rejected: it may not have anything to do with you!

Learn and move on. Truthfully, the only way to get over rejection is to learn from the rejection and move on. Being rejected by someone is not the end of anything; it is the beginning of learning. We need to take the time and effort to work out for ourselves the reason or reasons we were rejected in the first place. This will give us the necessary information we need to overcome the rejection so we can move on.

I was still very close to the boy who rejected me. I talked to him about why he rejected me and found out that I was a little tame for him liking. This information helped me to see the rejection for what it was: a difference in our value systems. I was able to move on with my life. Confronting the person who rejected you doesn't always work. If you feel approaching your rejecter would lead to more problems, you shouldn't do it.
Turn rejection into acceptance. I can assure you the pain does lesson and the hurt does go away if you let it. You must turn the rejection into an acceptance of yourself for who you are and not what you feel the other person wants you to be. Do not try to change yourself only to impress someone else because eventually you may come to resent it. Sooner or later someone will accept you as the person you are and will feel the same way about you that you feel about them. It only takes time and patience.
To sum it all up, dealing with rejection and getting past the hurt is not easy, but it can be done. You need to get up, learn from the experience, and move on with your life. It is that simple but also that complicated. I can tell you from experience that there are times I still look back and wonder, "what if?" Then, I look at where I am now and think to myself, "I really would not change

For: Greciasha

My Screen Friends

I'ts been long and a tiring day
I had done all of my works
so I sit back and relax
and turn on my screen.

I'll talk to all my friends
who know just what to say
to make my stresses go
and my troubles fade away.

My friends you're always there for me
whenever I feel blue
and though we've never met before
I know our friendships true.

And although we haven't been friends for long
in this short time it seems
we shared so many things already
our hopes, our fears, our dreams.

We come from different walks of life
but we share a common bond
and it's time to say that of all of you
I've grown so very fond.

So thank you friends for being there whenever
I've needed youI know you're always there for me
and you know
I'm there for you.

Bestfriend

My Bestfiend

This for you, my best friend,
the one person i can tell my soul too
Who can relate to me like no other
Who I can laugh with to no extents,
Who I can cry too when times are tough,

Who can help me with the problems of my life.
Never have you turned your back on me Or told me
I wasnt good enough Or let me down
I don't think you know what that means to me
You have went through so much pain and you still have time For me.

And I love you for listening even when inside
YOU are dying And I look up too you because you are strong, and caring and beautiful.
Even though you don't think you are.

And I hope you know that I am always here To listen to you laugh and cry and help
In all the ways that i can And I will try to be at least half the friend you are To me.
I hope you know I would not be the person I am today,
with out you. My best friend.

Friends- C. de la CRuz, L. Parreño

I Owe You

This is a list
Of what to expect
From me to you
With love and respect
I owe you an ear
Cuz u would always pay attention
I owe you a shoulder
Cuz on yours lies my affection
I owe u a hand
You always helped out
I owe u advice
Of that there’s no doubt
I owe u respect
Of that your full
I owe trust
With my secrets you were cool
I owe you knowledge
You taught me so much
I owe you love
Deep in my heart, you touched
I owe you a friend
Who is honest and true
I owe you my life
Because of what you still do

Smile In Your heart

SMILE THOUGH IT HURTS

When a guy says that he really cares about you how do you know he means it?

1.If you are in doubt if he cares about you or not, then he probably does not, unless you're a very timid girl who has difficulty believing that HE could like YOU.
Or maybe it's YOU who doesn't (yet) like HIM and you don't want to try to develop feelings for him unless you know he's honest?

2.Is there any reason he might be lying, like just getting you in bed, getting a promotion in your dad's firm etc.? If you've already slept with him, chances are he means it. If you haven't and you're not saving your virginity till you're sure you may just do it and enjoy it, though try to fall only a little for him. Even if he was lying before, the lie may still become truth...

3.You don't seem to trust him - either because you don't know him well, (then get to know him: talk with him, hang out with him(take care),spend as much time as you can with him)
or because you know he is untrustworthy. Of course even a habitual liar may tell the truth: if you are and stay a very independant person, maybe you can be happy even with an untrustworthy guy.
Answer
Action speaks louder than words. Does he show you that he cares about you? Does he make you feel like he cares about you? Forget about what he says.

4.I think that you know that a guy really cares about you when he shows patience in if you have a time during the month that sucks! I think that actions speak louder than words with guys, and they can show it better than say it.

5.Definitely behavior. How well does he consider your feelings. Does he include you in his activities? Do you feel like you are part of his life or a bit on the sidelines? Does he talk openly with you, or does he keep secrets.

I don't necessarily agree with all that is above. You must ask yourself first...does this man show me that he cares for me? Would he drop everything for me in my time of need? Not only that, but does he think of me as being the most important thing and everything else comes in second and so on??? If you want to get to the bottom of it then test him, don't lie though. For example: I was in the same situation...I was curious to figure out if this guy I dated for 2 years on and off if he seriously cared for me...he said it, but did he mean it? What I did was I went and visited him during a time of our seperation. He had a weeks notice that I was coming. So, I got a hotel room and I called him to let him know that I was in town....he didnt show up until 12 that night. I was so furious, but before you jump to conclusion such as I did ask him what he was doing and so forth. Needless to say, I now dislike him very much...he was the kind of guy that will tell you anything to see you happy in the present time, at least when he was around. I learned my lesson so now when a guy says he cares I act as if I believe him, but secretly I test him. I am a successful career oriented woman so regardless of age, the testing will always determine the final solution.